Why?

I am at a loss for words right now due to a situation that is going on in my family. I have a cousin who now has had 2 failed adoptions! And I don't just mean they got chosen and then nothing happened. The first time they had the cutest baby boy for 5 months and then he got taken away because the birth father had decided that he wanted to keep the baby. After 5 months! I can't even imagine. My cousin and her husband are really strong people to have gone through this. Then a few months ago they got picked to get another child. A little girl! About a month ago they weren't sure if the birth father would sign the papers for the adoption. They didn't want what happened before to happen again, who would? Well, it was a miracle, the birth father signed the papers the day before the baby was going to be born!! So, they flew out the day she was born. Now, in that state, they have 48 hours to change their mind and take away their signature. The birth mother has always thought that this wasn't her child, and has felt very strongly about the adoption. My cousin and her husband met their new baby girl, gave her a name, and were the primary care takers at the hospital. They were the ones who stayed with her all night, fed her, changed her, etc. They even met the birth father and he said he felt good about the adoption. I'm not entirely sure, but I believe either a family member of the birth father and/or a friend convinced him to take his signature off the papers!!!!! My heart breaks for my cousin! They wanted to make sure that they wouldn't have the same thing happen. And it did! I don't care if you had the baby 5 months, or 2 days...you get attached. And now they have to leave and go home without a baby!!! And what makes this so frustrating is that from what I understand the birth father would never be granted custody. He probably wouldn't even have the right to visits unless they were supervised by a third party!!! I don't know all the details, but from what I have heard he isn't the greatest person ever. So, why did he take his signature off the papers?!? We are all so sad for my cousin! I have never had trouble having kids, but I have heard the stories from my mom and how hard it is to see everyone around you having kids and not you! I just want my cousin to know that I'm thinking and praying for her and this little girl! And if you hear of anyone who is considering giving a baby up for adoption, I know of a great little family who would love another addition into their family! I know that the Lord has a plan for everyone, I just don't understand why they have had to go though this 2 times!!!! My prayers are with her family, and that is all we can do now.